Saturday, July 21, 2012

Introducing Benjamin Thomas Holder

Although Benjamin had a rough start...

(at Skyridge)

(In NICU at Skyridge he needed help breathing.)


(At TC Thompson Children's Hospital NICU...Still with wires but breathing on his own.)


  


God has blessed us and given us a beautiful son.

The Lord has answered our prayers and Benjamin is currently a healthy baby boy.

HOME


 4 generations in each photo

Richmond, Papaw (Kenneth is Richmond's dad.) w/Benjamin, & Josh

Mary Jane, Mamaw (Bobbie is Mary Jane's mom) w/Benjamin, & Josh

Happy new parents...Who have had marginally enough sleep to still be smiling.

Loving this picture.  We've fallen absolutely in love with our sweet Benjamin.

I want to share his birth story with you, 
but this mom will need to have a little more time & a little more sleep first.

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Welcome Home, Baby Benjamin

I will have to upload pictures soon, but in the meantime for those of you who follow this who don't get my text messages...Benjamin Thomas Holder has arrived!

Born Sunday, June 15th, at 4:21 PM.  He weighed 8 lbs, 4 oz and was 20 inches long.  I managed to stick to my birth plan and had a natural delivery.  Long story short, Benjamin had respiratory distress at birth, and we've had a long week which included Benjamin spending 3 days in the NICU.    Needless to say, 4 days later this new mom is sore but recovering, exceptionally exhausted, and it may be a while before to Have and to Holder has a flood of pictures of our son.  I'll try to post one or two in the next day if at all possible.


Thank you for your prayers, and please keep praying for us as we try to rest and take care of Benjamin.  I must say that my husband has been such a wonderful support to me both during the delivery, at the hospital, and now at home.  As much as I love being a mom, I am enjoying just as much watching my husband become a dad.  I feel so incredibly blessed to have God not only give me a beautiful baby boy who is now healthy, but also such a wonderful man who is showing his love to me in so many ways.  


Please keep praying.  Benjamin has some elevated Bilirubin numbers which are being monitored by the doctor.   We are hoping that they have decreased tomorrow (4th day of life is usually when they are at their peak) so that we don't have to use special lights this weekend.  We are hoping for the best.  We let him have  a few minutes in the sunlight today, and he's been eating and soiling diapers like a champ.  ;)

Friday, July 13, 2012

Pregnancy Update -- 38 weeks!

Here I am with that much awaited pregnancy update.  
First, a few pictures of me slowly turning into a small hippo.  lol

Last week, at 37 weeks.

Last weekend w/my hubby

Yesterday, in my most recent (and biggest) photo yet
I'm officially 38 weeks today, and taking that in to consideration, I'm doing well.  I had one of my first real bouts of misery yesterday afternoon & evening when I couldn't get comfortable no matter what I did, my entire torso ached, my digestive system was in turmoil, and to add insult to injury I started boo-hoo-ing part of the way through the afternoon from the hormonal rollercoaster that is me as a pregnant woman.  I kept telling myself..."This is good.  My body is preparing for labor.  Misery means I'm getting closer.  I actually want to the contractions to come now.  Go on...hurt more.  BRING IT ON!"  lol.

On the upside, I'm feeling a little better today, and I had a FANTASTIC visit to the doctor on Wednesday.  After being told for 2 weeks that I'm measuring large, they scheduled an ultrasound.  Benjamin is looking great (and is consequently, still a boy, btw).  He has plenty of fluid, his size is completely normal & on par with what it needs to be, and his heartbeat is still going strong.  They guesstimated that he is 7 lbs, 2 oz -- which can usually be off a pound in either direction.  He's completely in position -- head down, facing back.

Because I've been feeling pressure & crampiness off and on (plus having some Braxton Hicks contractions) I requested that they go ahead and "check me" at this visit.  I was glad I did because I found out that I'm 3 cm, 70% effaced, and he's between -1 & -2 station.  That's helped encourage me to keep sitting on my exercise ball, walk plenty, and do squats.  I had my moments yesterday when I thought he had finally dropped, but I think that he was just trying to get my hopes up by settling in a little lower for a while.  Oh well.


My belly has itched like crazy off and on for a few weeks, and I'm looking forward to that stopping. :)

In the interest of "everyone's who had been pregnant has been there" moments, I thought I'd share the questions and comments that I have heard the most over the past few months.

1)  Inquiries about mine & baby's health:  How are you feeling?  How're you doin' Mama? How's the baby?  How are Amanda and Benjamin today?  How are you?  Sleeping well?  Is he moving a lot?

2)  Inquires and comments about time:  When are you due?  Really, that close.  It won't be long.  You're getting closer.  Wow, that close already?  How long now?  I bet you're ready.  When's that due date again?  How many weeks left?  I think that he's going to come early/late.  You'll have him by ____.

3) Inquiries about doctors & medical choices:  Which hospital are you using?  Who is your doctor?  Are you going to have an epidural?  You're going natural!  Oh honey, take the medicine.

3)  Inquiries about our anticipation to become parents:  Is Josh getting excited?  Are you guys ready?  You're going to be such great parents.  Are you getting excited?  I bet your parents are thrilled.


And, the list goes on.  I'm thoroughly appreciative of all the love, prayers, and well wishing being sent our way.  Personally, I'm quite ready to see him, and I know with the Lord's timing it won't be long.

Monday, July 2, 2012

Baby items

I'm still here.  :)  I'll attempt to post a pregnancy update in the next day or two.  

Josh, Benjamin, and I are still here and patiently waiting.  
Benjamin has definitely grown, and we'll be 37 weeks on Friday.

My husband got our stroller assembled a few weeks ago.  Here it is with our baby seat in it.


This isn't the most up-to-date picture of the nursery, but it shows an "in progress" shot from a few weeks ago.  I'd say it is 95% complete.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Happy 200th Post!

Happy 200th post here at Bearcatfeet.  Here's to many more! ;)

What better way to celebrate, than to continue with those pregnancy photos.  Ignoring that I'm technically 35 weeks tomorrow, here's the rest of the pictures from the 34 week "photo shoot" the other day.  Essentially, I wanted to be able to have the benefit of some baby belly shots like I would get from a professional photographer...but without the cost.  

I think Josh did an excellent job as photographer. :)  It definitely helped that we had good lighting too.

A few more pictures I sent through my photo editor.  My Black-Eyed Susans exploded this year.


The rest I've left "as is"...for now.
  










And a little behind the scenes photo for you...

We had an audience for our pictures on the hill by the tree.  Josh's Papaw has recently turned that entire field into a cow pasture, and the heifers/bull decided to join us.  They are still a bit timid.  We've avoided becoming too attached to them since Papaw has plans for them in the future.  Hint: He's not raising them for their dairy.  

I'd like to say that I'll have nursery photos to post soon, but we'll have to see how tomorrow goes.  lol.  Ideally, I want to have the nursery done before VBS next week.  

Did I mention that I'm directing our church VBS at 35 weeks pregnant?  I'm a glutton for punishment. :)  
As a school teacher on summer vacation I figured, "Why not?"  

Anyway, minus needing to vacuum & steam mop the floor in there, 
my goal is to have the nursery ready & waiting by tomorrow evening.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

34 weeks

I'll have more pictures to come later from my preggers "photo shoot" with my hubby at the cabin.  He's so loving and wonderful to humor me...It wasn't at the top of his to do list.  lol.

I thought this one did well accentuating my current figure (I played with the photo editor as you can tell).  
Pregnancy has gone by so fast.  If I didn't feel so pregnant now, I'd find it hard to believe that we've made it to 35 weeks this Friday.

So ready to meet you baby Benjamin! ;)

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Happy Father's Day!

Happy Father-to-Be day to my wonderful husband, Joshua!  He's going to be a fantastic dad.

Happy Father's Day to my dad, Bill (pictured with my mom, Lynda).  I am blessed to have wonderful parents.  They are excited about entering a new stage of life with us as Grammy & Pop Pop.

Here's Josh's dad, Richmond.  (His mom, Mary Jane, not pictured)

Lastly, a souvenir from a "man trip" on Friday.  Josh, my father, his father, and some male co-workers of Josh's all went to the Braves game on Friday evening.  They splurged and got tickets for a box.  Josh brought home an outfit (12 months size) for baby Benjamin.  Too cute! 

More pictures to come in a future post.  My sweet husband gave in to my wishes to have a pregnancy "photo shoot" here at the cabin.  Nice and round at 34 weeks, I'll try to share those soon! ;)